Why is it that people always ask the woman who has three kids and whose husband is deployed for things? Don't they realize that I have enough going on? Do they realize that I'm also too nice to say no? Do they know I'm fearful that if I say no to them, that they may not help me out sometime during the next year when I'm desperate for help?
And why is it always seem to be fellow military spouses (either prior or present) that ask me for these "favors" even though they still have BOTH parents at home? Do you think I really want 8 kids in my house when it's just me?
And while I'm ranting, why do people tell me they'll help me out and then never do? Don't tell me you'll cut my grass while I'm out of town for the weekend, only to come home and it not be cut.